Greetings!

Oh. Hi to all. I am Juan Vids one of the authors (contributors) invited here to help moderate discussions in this blog. Thank you to annwell for inviting me here. Ok, let me introduce myself:

Name: Juan Vids
Age: 17 years old
Location: somewhere (i am everywhere)
Gender: Male
Blogs owned: (currently I have 3 blogs) -please follow me and i will follow you-

• Juan Vids 

• WrEgo, Juan's writing ego

• PhEgo, Juan's photography ego

Expectation:
I for see having this blog as a lounge for youths and young-adults wherein we could share problems we already encountered and life experience. ^^

re(2): unreturned love

Exactly Ann. It was a nice one. And like you have said, its very needed for you to move on. If you don't, you'll have to suffer then.
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re: the unreturned love

that was an awesome love story of yours, cindy.
let me say direct to the point. for me, it is better for you to move on. Why? because, it not his fault that he doesn't like you. well, it's nobody's fault, you know.

does my co-blogger agree with me?? hmmpf..Li and Kath...

from: AnN

THE UNRETURNED LOVE

                                                                                                                               May 10, 2010

Dear Liannkath,
         Good day to you! I read your page and I was inspired to tell you my experience regarding love problems I am now a first year college student. what happened to me happened when i was in high school.

       "I had a crush on this lad since I was in first year high school. My heart beats for him when we first met in the road. I told myself to stop the foolishness. Yes, it stopped. Months passed by and I forgot him since I studied at different school. But a day came when i met him again with his friends. I started questioning myself who was that lad was.

       " A year later, I knew that my cousin was a schoolmate of this lad I was talking about. Let us name the lad as John, my cousin as fretz. fretz lived in our house for a year because my mom promised my uncle to take care my cousin since she lived far from her school. In the first month of her stay in our house, i knew that a gal had a crush on  John. and that gal was also my cousin. her name is mary. I haven't seen her for almost seven  years since we left our old house. 
       " A month later, fretz told me that Mary and John was in a relationship . I was playing computer when she told me. I was in shock but i recovered fast. I told her, 'ok'. then i went back to my computer. Instead of playing, I played a song entitled, girlfriend. It doesn't mean that i hate my cousin nor i don't like her. It was just one of the most famous song at that time. after hearing the song, i went to my bedroom and there, i stayed for the whole night. 
        " i usually went to their school once every month just to see him. see how foolish i was? Even my mother wasn't able to stop me. well, that was before. months later, my mom saw a letter sent by her student. the letter said that john had a crush on me and that was the reason of the break up of his girlfriend. i was totally in shock. i didn't believe it. i was cracking a joke to my mom when she opened that topic. I went in the backyard and i told myself; 'no, that's not true. he can't be disloyal to his first love.'
        "every time i met him, i just looked at my feet. i never looked at his eyes. Because if i do, my heart starts to beat faster and faster. it continued the same situation for many months. then, one day, i went to their school because my cousin told me to do so. that was three months later when we last met in a community celebration. we met again a week before our recognition. he had the confidence to ask me to be  his friend. to avoid misunderstanding, i agreed to be his friend. we became text mates.
         " A year later, i told him what i was feeling feeling for him. everybody expected  that he felt the same way too. but we were wrong. he said, 'i'm sorry to hurt your feelings but i just treated you as my friend.' i was not in shock nor i was sad at the first time i read his message. well, it was only in sms. i was very happy that i knew his feelings towards me. but deep inside, i felt empty.
        " days later and we both acted that nothing was happened, every time we saw each other, we smiled and say hi. then exchange messages like nothing had happened. it was wonderful.
        "however, a month later, everything had change. he never texted me the way he used to do. he texted me few sms. then, i found out that he was very busy with his text mate. and i was deeply hurt. what will i do? will i still love him secretly or move on and let go of him? please do help me. i need your opinions to stop the bleeding of this heart. 

        THANK YOU!!

CINDY

WHY WE CREATED THIS BLOG?

This blog is made especially for teenagers and to those people who have problems about love, study, life and etc. Our purpose is to give comments and opinions when encountering the readers' problems.

The blog liannkath is composed of three bloggers-Gil,Ann and Kath. At the young age, we already felt the feeling of being broken hearted. Commonly in love, friendship, study and family. The three of us can give you opinions on how to encounter the problems of life.

To tell us about your problems, any problem, you can send us an email (liannkath@gmail.com). We will choose an email every week and this will be featured in this blog.

We will wait your email and see what we can do.